The idea of soulmates is a romanticized notion that many people believe to be true. However, the truth of the matter is that there are no guarantees in life and it’s important to not get hung up on someone who doesn’t fit your ideal.
Soulmates are a beautiful concept that we all want to believe in. When soulmates can’t be together, it’s frustrating and disappointing. But when you stop looking for the perfect person, life becomes more fulfilling.
Why we shouldn’t get too caught up on soulmates.
A psychic informed me many years ago that the guy I was passionately in love with was my soul mate. So I spent two and a half years of my life with this guy coming and going as he pleased, until I realized he was not a man I could spend eternity with. I subsequently found that the psychic was correct; I had lived several lifetimes with this guy, all of which ended in misery.
It was then that I realized that just because someone told me he was my soul mate didn’t mean I was destined to spend the rest of my life with him. So started my journey to learn more about soulmates and the role they play in our lives, and what I found may surprise you.
What is the definition of a soul mate?
Did you know that before we take into human form, we make agreements with other spirits to meet on Earth and study certain soul lessons? Some of these individuals may stay with us for a lifetime, while others may just be with us until we have learned a lesson before moving on with their lives. ” A soulmate is someone we decided to meet on our human journey in order to learn and develop together. We don’t have to live with them for the rest of our life.
Some individuals are fast to pick up their lessons, find a suitable spouse, and settle down. Others take a bit longer, encountering the same kinds of individuals again and over until they get the lesson. Something to think about the next time you’re trying to figure out why you keep meeting the wrong people. Another thing to think about is whether you believe a loving God, Universe, or Creator would want you to spend eternity with someone who makes you anxious or stressed.
Is there someone I’m supposed to be with?
“When will I meet the guy I will spend the rest of my life with?” you may ask a psychic. What if they told you, “Actually, you won’t meet your last spouse until you’re 50, during a karaoke night at a bar that hasn’t been constructed yet?” Would you munch chips on the sofa until the date was handed to you, then go to the new karaoke bar? If you did, it’s likely you wouldn’t meet your everlasting mate since you may have had a soul contract with someone else first to learn more about yourself and prepare you for meeting your true love.
We have free will as humans, and we have numerous love choices. They come sometimes, but we are not prepared for them, so they go on. That’s OK; there will be more choices later. Some may remain for a few years while we learn and develop from one another, but we will eventually grow apart. Thank that individual for their contribution to your trip, knowing that you’re one step closer to making another meaningful connection.
So, instead of obsessing about issues like “who am I supposed to be with?” or “is this my everlasting love?” Consider the following questions: What am I supposed to take away from this relationship? What information do I need regarding my connection with X? What should I do to be ready for my next love? What is the best way for me to go on and mend my shattered heart? What value do I provide to a romantic relationship?
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Frequently Asked Questions
Do soulmates sometimes not end up together?
No, they are always together.
Why you shouldnt be with your soulmate?
It is best to not be with your soulmate because they will eventually disappoint you and make you feel like less of a person.
What happens when you let go of your soulmate?
When you let go of your soulmate, they die.
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